Parental Failure

(ENG)

Don't blame the child, blame the parents who always upset her and allow her to scream all over the place. The parents may not intend to do so, but it's their failure of understanding the nature of small human beings that offsets their intention. I don't hate children, but these bad parental examples really set me back on ever having children. Children are individually diverse regarding their character, temperament, intellect, etc. All parents use the same teaching technique: a mixture of going-with and going-against methods. For instance, allowing her to choose candy over fruit once in a while, but brushing teeth before bed is non-negotiable. However, this balance between on and off really vary individually depending on the child. There are too many responsibilities in giving life and raising children. The earth is getting increasingly crowded already. For God's sake, just give me a break.

Any of my logic is invalid, since we're never truly ready for anything and having children is nature's order.

(中文)

不要怪小朋友，怪父母經常的弄哭她、放任她在街上喊叫。這對父母可能不是刻意這樣做的，但是他們無法了解幼年人類的天性，抵銷了他們的行动和動機的正確性。我不討厭小朋友，但是這些惡劣的家庭教育例子真的令我再三反思要不要生養孩子。每個小朋友都有不同的個性、氣度、智商等等。所有家長都用同樣的教育方式：混合鼓勵和抑制的方法。比方說，間中允許她在糖果和水果之间選擇前者，但是睡前刷牙是必不可少的。然而這個“放”和“停”的平衡應用在每個不同的孩子身上時都相差甚廣。创造生命和养育小朋友的责任有太多了，地球也在变得日益拥挤，你地班劣質父母放過我啦好嘛？

我逻辑都是无效的，因为我们从来就没有真正准备好做什么事，而且生育儿女是大自然的安排。

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